Love, they say, knows no price tag. And in Ghana, where culture, connection, and character still count for something, a man without a heavy wallet but with the right approach can still capture the heart of a good woman.
In this exclusive piece, we explore how to win over a Ghanaian woman even if your bank account is on life support.
1. Confidence is key — but don’t fake it
Confidence, not cockiness, is magnetic. You don’t need a V8 or designer drip to walk tall. Ghanaian women, especially the mature and grounded ones, are drawn to men who know who they are and where they’re going — even if they haven’t arrived yet. Be honest about your current situation, but speak with purpose about your vision. In the words of one Accra-based lady, “I don’t mind a guy who’s broke. I mind a guy who’s broke and directionless.”
2. Be genuinely caring and present
You may not be able to take her to Kempinski or Santoku, but you can still show her she matters. A thoughtful text in the morning, checking up on her during the day, or just listening to her rants about traffic and her boss at work — these things cost nothing but time and attention, and they matter. Many Ghanaian women value emotional connection more than flashy gestures.
3. Master the art of effort, not expense
Effort is the real currency of affection. Can’t afford a fancy dinner? Cook her a humble meal and serve it with love. Can’t send her flowers? Write her a heartfelt note or send a well-worded voice note (yes, WhatsApp is free). In a world where many women are tired of loud boys with nothing to offer but money and vibes, a man who goes the extra mile in small ways will always stand out.
4. Show respect — especially to her family and values
In Ghana, respect is huge. If she’s serious about you, she’s already thinking about how you’ll fit into her larger family picture. Mind your language, respect her faith (whether she’s a staunch Presbyterian or a vibe-loving Pentecostal), and never make light of her culture or background. A broke man with manners and humility has a better shot than a rich man with an arrogant mouth.
5. Be ambitious — and let her see the grind
No Ghanaian woman wants to be stuck with a man who’s broke today and still broke 10 years from now. If you’re working on something — a small business, side hustle, school project, or a job search — let her see the fire in your eyes. Invite her into the journey, not just the dream. “I don’t need him to have it all,” says Adwoa, a final-year student in Legon, “but I need to see that he’s working towards something.”
6. Don’t beg — be creative
There’s a thin line between humility and dependency. Asking her to buy airtime for you every two days is not cute. But if you show initiative — maybe offer to run an errand, help her with a school project, or brainstorm business ideas together — she’ll respect you. Even if she eventually offers help, it’s because she sees you as a partner, not a parasite.
