A-list celebrity Joselyn Dumas has explained in her show Keeping it Real with Joselyn Dumas why single mothers struggle to find someone to marry them even if that is something that they want.
Joselyn posited that the majority of men don’t want single mothers because they detest the idea of having to raise the children of other men as they feel, that is not their responsibility especially when there are other women out there too who don’t have children.
“Let me tell you why we don’t go out and marry. I spoke to a friend of mine here, Anthony. He said, Me, I will never be with a born one. His reason was, Why would I come and raise somebody else’s child? That’s not my bloodline. He doesn’t have any trace of my DNA in him. Why am I going to now help someone’s bloodline grow? What about mine?”- The actress is heard explaining things on her show.
Joselyn went head to say that when she asked him, why he does not see it as an adoption but this friend will not take none of it.
She opined that men should actually see it as an adoption when they meet a single mother they love and help her raise her children.
“They won’t even ask you why you have a child. They don’t even care why you have a child. You met a guy and after seven miscarriages you get pregnant, are you doing to abort the child? No. You can raise a child on your own. It is a sacrifice you’ve also made. Society will not side with a woman and will claim she has one child so what are you doing with her?”
The topic for that episode of the show was “Part Two: The difficulties involved in single-parenting”.
On the topic, the other guest on the show who was also on the show stated that, society seems to always judge a single mother and usually blame her as they assume that, it could be that she has bad character
Watch the episode below: